DontWorryBHappy Posted June 10, 2012 Posted June 10, 2012 I went out on a date today that actually went really well. It was one of those dates that started off with just talking, then got extended due to us wanting to continue spending time together (so we ended up going for frozen yogurt and then bowling too). I noticed that when I first saw him I wasn't immediately sure if I was into him or not. For me it usually takes a couple minutes of feeling someone out to know if I can be into them. What reeled me in: - his eyes. Usually a guy's eyes seem pretty normal to me. Not too many people have a really beautiful color or anything too special about their eyes, but this guy has lovely eyes! They're big, kind looking, and DARK, just like mine. It made me melt a little bit the more I looked at them. - His smile. He has one of these slightly dimpley smiles with cute teeth.. just nice and visually pleasing. - His voice. For me, I have to feel a kind of "comfort" when talking with a guy and that has a lot to do with the way his voice sounds. His voice is smooth and calming to listen to. - The fact that he is a genuinely nice person. Humble, good morals, sweet, gentlemanly (he offered to pay for everything, opened doors, etc). What reels you in? I know it's different for everyone!
LittlePrince Posted June 10, 2012 Posted June 10, 2012 Are you dating Bob Ross? - his eyes. Usually a guy's eyes seem pretty normal to me. Not too many people have a really beautiful color or anything too special about their eyes, but this guy has lovely eyes! They're big, kind looking, and DARK, just like mine. It made me melt a little bit the more I looked at them. There is one girl at work who keeps making comments about my eyes which leaves me feeling one day she'll scoop them out and put them in a jar of formaldehyde to set on her dresser next to her bed. I have begun to fear spoons. Should I be worried? 1
goldengirl11 Posted June 10, 2012 Posted June 10, 2012 When you said 'seal the deal' I thought you meant as in deciding you're both in a relationship now.
Author DontWorryBHappy Posted June 10, 2012 Author Posted June 10, 2012 Lol, nah I just meant deciding to yourself that this is someone you could date, fall for, maybe have an actual relationship with, etc.
Leopard Posted June 10, 2012 Posted June 10, 2012 Well at first, chemistry. If we have good chemistry, then no matter what you don't like about him, you can't resist him. That's how it was with my ex. As time goes on, though, you start to get to know them better and eventually learn whether or not they are long term material for you. In this case, for me, the person needs to be KIND (most important), intelligent, not lazy, well-spoken, kind of a nerd, and of course, he needs to love me. If he matches everything else but he doesn't love me and isn't a kind person, it doesn't matter the chemistry, the money, the looks etc. I can't be with a man like that.
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