MoneyMatt Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Basically, I've been in a relationship with this girl for 5 years; most of high school and after. We broke up 2 months ago, and I made the mistake most people make. - I begged & cried multiple times for her in front of her - I showed up at her house without a invite - I ignored her decision in taking a break and being single because I was scared she would find someone else - She tells me she loves me but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now - I ask her "just say you don't want to be with me" and she says "I can't tell the future" - I cheated on her once and she has cheated on me (Not healthy but it is what it is) We both agreed to not talk to each other until July 3rd; it's the day after she's done with summer classes so she will have time to talk. I was just wondering all the mistakes I've made in the last 2 months (crying for her,begging,writing letters) officially ended my chances? or will no contact from now until July maybe help? I haven't spoken to her for about 3 days, and I can honestly say I'm not too sad anymore because I know deep down she truly loves me, I mean we been together for 5 years but not the person I've become (the beggar,cry type) All in All, is their still a slight chance a month from now, she can remember the person she fell in love then the person I've become the last 2 months?
seren Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 I am assuming you are a younger man as opposed to one over 30. So, my advice is what I would give my son, leave her alone, let her miss you, don't become a pest or at worse, a nuisance. If she wants to speak to you, then she will seek you out, let her do a bit of wondering why you aren't around. Be friendly if you see her, but not overly gushy. Just take time to find you. I know it must hurt, but, if she wants you and if it meant to be, then she will find you and it will be. That's all the advice I can give, so back off, cool your heels and keep busy.
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