fawnly68 Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 Today I did the dishes so to speak in my LTR, we had been having issues, and I reeally felt for my happiness and his a break was in order, I was planning on talking to him in the terms of a break, and I ended up getting into a breakup. I never thought Id be the one to say, it is over, done, finito...And regret it. First off, let me say even with problems we were friends. Friends, and then lovers, we did all sorts of great things we both liked together, and we were at on time really happy. Today he admits to me that he cant get past feeling selfish, and cant see himself with another person, that he is meant to be solitary...Last weekend he shared with his family that he was taking me to Egypt on our honeymoon...I think we both got in over our heads, had differances in opinion, and left things sort of in a mess... Where do we go from here, obviously our seperate ways, but how do you move on, forget the pain and start over, Im feeling like I lost my best friend. Any ideas on etiquette for contact, how to manage living in a small town, and do I ever feel like I am whole again?
lydiamarie Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 who decided that the break should turn into the breakup? is that what you wanted? if so, then just be polite when you see him, but don't go out of your way to talk to him. the pain will pass and this will all get easier. if the break turned into a breakup because of miscommunication, then talk to him about it.
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