gbadboy Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Hey, Was just wondering if any one has every experienced a friend (best friend at that) having secret relationship with your boyfriend while you and your bf were together? I found out last year that my best friend of 14 years had something going on with my boyfriend for many months and they both hid it from me. We even went to a resort in the Caribbean and while I was downstairs, my bf was in the room with my friend together. When my ex broke up with me, I was so hurt. My friends were there to support me except my best friend who was spending a lot of time with my ex. The break up was hard for me, but even more tough knowing that my best friend was hanging with my ex bf - going to parties all over the place. When i asked my friend what the deal was he said "im jus supporting your ex bc he really has no friends". Stupid me, fell for it and I thanked my friend for "being there for my ex" (because i still loved my ex and wanted to get back him ) Months passed and i would beg my best friend to support me and come out with me a night and cheer me up. He would never come. Instead he would be out partying with my ex. I started to get suspicisions they were seeing each other but couldnt digest that. I continued to ask my friend several times what was going on and he denied it. I believed him. I had to believe my friend. In fact, as time progressed I started hanging out with my x and my friend, thinking we were all friends - but not knowing they were sleeping together. Just before Christmas, they both came clean and told me what was going on. I was destroyed..... it hurt me to know that I would go to sleep each night alone knowing that my ex was in my friends bed (they moved in together) In fact, I would go over to my friends place and he would hide my ex's clothes from me so that i wouldn't figure out he moved in. Has anyone else dealt with this? If so, how did you overcome it? I had no choice but to totally CUT my friend and my xbf off - completely. And by cut off I meant a total cut off......... When my friend told me on the phone.........i paused, and said to him "good bye"...hung up - shut my phone off and left it off for weeks. I emailed my other friends and kept out of sight for months. In March I got a new phone and a new number and I started over. Today I am much stronger and I could actually face my ex....if I saw him, I wouldn't be angry - in fact I pity him. What the 2 of them did to me was disgusting, but im so turned off by the both of them now that they dont eve phase me.
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