engineer0308 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 I came here seeking advice a couple of weeks ago about my Gf, and everyone suggested I take some time off from the relationship and allow her to miss me.. I did. I broke up with her in hopes that she would realize things werent as great as before.And it Worked. About a month later with NC she began to text me, and asking me how I was doing and I would ignore 70% of her efforts to talk. I kept busy with work, friends and occasionally talking to some girls here and there. She wanted to see me on tuesday to talk, and I went over. We talked about how we were doing, how this summer was going to suck and things like that. Then she mentioned that she wanted to see me because she missed me. I told her I missed her as well. She then said that she wanted to be with me again, but just not right now. she said that "she wanted us to fix the little things that got in the way in the past. to ACTUALLY do instead of TRYING ". I was with her on this. We agreed that we would see eachother and go on little dates, and just start from scratch again. I kissed her once or twice, and finally left . 3 days had gone by and we scheduled a movie date the night after I saw her. I asked about the plans and if everything was okay because she hadnt talked to me since. No answer. She gave me her facebook password when we began dating years ago, and I just happened to go on to see if she had been active and was just ignoring me. but she hasnt been on for a couple of days. I was alarmed and texted her best friend asking to see if she had heard from her. I feared that she was sick, phone was lost, or worse. She just called me now 3 days later and said that she feels overwhelmed, and that she would call me later tonight. OVERWHELMED?! WE HAVENT EVEN STARTED HAHA ! IM SOOO CONFUSED ! And I dont know how to handle this situation from here. I dont want to tell her that I dont care as much as she thinks I do, and that Im not all over her (we were having problems because she said she felt like I didnt lover her, or wasnt trying to show her). But At the same time, I dont want to ruin things by being all over her. PLEASE HELP!!!:confused:
Philosoraptor Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Too many games being played here for this to work. Be upfront with what you want and your expectations for things. If you guys aren't on the same page then you need to make the decision on whether to wait it out or move on to find someone you are on the same page with.
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