no_radar Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 (edited) Right here goes; Im a 21 yr old male I met a girl in february at work (we no longer work at the place we met) and subsequently swapped numbers, since then we have been texting regularly. We both live very busy lives being in our second year of uni and both holding down 2 jobs as well, but we have been out for drinks once where she was sitting close to me and laughing at all my jokes, as well as some serious deep conversation. I couldnt try putting my arm around her and stuff to judge her reaction as I had my arm in a cast at the time. We have both tried to get each other out for drinks again since but the other has been working or busy. The other day she text me saying 'I have a proposition for you, would you like to come to a festival with me?' I said I would love to but couldnt afford it, she rang me later and said she had got the tickets and got her mum to pay and I would pay her back, to which i agreed! We are still texting regularly and are going to the festival in about 3 weeks, but im not sure if its as friends or if there is something more......I really like her!! Someone I know who went to school with her said she used to be BI at school and sleep with girls although I havent been told that has been the case in recent years. She also text me tonight and asked to go for drinks but I have no money as i rent my own place and have lots of bills, where as she still lives with her parents. So i said i couldnt as im broke, to which she replied 'let down! Xx' I would like to know whether you lovely people thinks she likes me, or if she is just wanting to be friends? Is there anything i can look out for as we dont get to see each other often and im trying to judge by what she says to me whether she likes me or not? Any input is much appreciated. Thanks Edited June 8, 2012 by no_radar
picaso28 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Mate she mos def likes you......She asked you to go to a festival and pay for you!! ha ha I am into a girl in work that i just met ( new job ). Any way we haven't even got to text stage or drinks as of yet but if we did i was planning to ask her out for a date and make a move. So put your dilemma into perspective. She has agreed to go for drinks with you. She texts you, you text her. She asks and pays for you to go to a festival.....she def likes you. All this stuff about lads and girls being friends is generally rubbish. Nine times out of ten if you go for 'drinks' with a girl then there is some romantic attraction surely??? good luck mate. Go for it. She knocks you back u don't work with her anymore.
Author no_radar Posted June 9, 2012 Author Posted June 9, 2012 anyone else have anything further to add, or their opinion on whether she does like me?
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