Jason02 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Hi all, long time reader first post. So I'll keep it short, I know most people drift off on long post. But basically my gf and I have been together for 6 years. A month ago she said she wasn't happy and wasn't happy but didn't know why. She said to give her some space to think and I did. She called me yesterday and we talked and she said she some independent. She has always depended on her friends or me to be there with her whenever she did something and wants to know she can do it on her own. I believer her when she said there is no other guy and that she only wants to be with me. She sees a future where we are married and have kids etc. but that right now she wants to focus on herself. I know this is somewhat a case of gigs, but I don't know what to do. She says she loves me and I love you but she doesn't know what to do. We decided to meet up in a few weeks to see where we stand. I told her I know she needs to do this and I wish I could give her all the time she wants but we dont know how long that will take, could be months years and I can't ts just not fair. She agreed but kept saying it wont take months. The past month I thought we were done and I was working on moving on. But with what she told me yesterday I don't know now. I don't know how to feel. I feel happy, mad, sad, angry, hopeful, worried, loved. But they all seem to cancel each other out so I also feel numb. A part of me wants to call her and say your either in or out and another part wants to give her the space she wants. Any thoughts?
babycrapgreen Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 What's "gigs"? Anyway, I take it you are on a break. Take this time to be independent yourself. Let her know that, at this time, you consider each-other broken up. You can't be a "guy in waiting", purely selfish on her part. Don't talk to her because she wants to be independent and can't be communicating with you if she wants to be independent.
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