julieb Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Hi I'm new on here. My predicament is thus: I have been married for 31 yrs and its over, more on my side than for his. I seriously cannot live with him anymore, i don't love him at all and we have been in seperate bedrooms for 3 yrs now. Our daughter is 34 married with 3 children. We live in a company house rent free and will do till we die. This house is a perk from his employment, not mine. I am omly a cleaner working 30 hrs a week so i dont have much money. to rent privately is very expensive. Husband retires next year and although he has a pension i dont think it amounts to that much . I am sooo trapped, please could anyone give any advice.
standtall Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Hi I'm new on here. My predicament is thus: I have been married for 31 yrs and its over, more on my side than for his. I seriously cannot live with him anymore, i don't love him at all and we have been in seperate bedrooms for 3 yrs now. Our daughter is 34 married with 3 children. We live in a company house rent free and will do till we die. This house is a perk from his employment, not mine. I am omly a cleaner working 30 hrs a week so i dont have much money. to rent privately is very expensive. Husband retires next year and although he has a pension i dont think it amounts to that much . I am sooo trapped, please could anyone give any advice. You have a choice..stay with him for financial reasons and be unhappy, or leave, having to make it on your own, and perhaps be happy. Do you expect him to support you for no reason? You can't have both.
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