matt1022 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Honestly Im so confused and freaking out. Me and this girl have dated for 5 years since we were 17 and 16. We had our problems but always worked them out together. Over the last 4 months I have not been myself and we were always acting like we were a married 50 year old couple and instead of changing it i just kept the relationship the way it was. We broke up and have a had NC for 2 weeks and its killing me and I have no clue what to do. I feel like were going to get back together over time but I keep feeling she, since we have had NC, doesn't understand that I want to change that, I wanna get out more do new things but together and before we broke up it was Im not happy I don't think I love you anymore.......which makes no sense to me since when you really don't love someone anymore you can't stand them. Ive seen it been through it but this isn't like this. I don't know what to do, thats my best friend and the girl I wanna marry. I feel like shell come back but I go out and don't want to do stuff without her.
Philosoraptor Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Well to this point she's the only thing you know. Just be patient and give it time. Foster your own growth and interests and live for the moment. Just let life happen and enjoy the ride right now.
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