robaday Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 I have to pretend to not be interested, to get her interested? Its happened so many times in my life now its untrue. I had a girl sending me sexual messages after a one night stand, the minute I asked her to go for a drink, BHAM gone. I went out on a date recently and all night I played it cool, and didnt make a move - I woke up in her bed. Basically whenever I initiate something just goes wrong. If I wait for her, then it generally works. Is this the girls I go for? or is it my personality? I want to be able to approach and get numbers, but that hasnt worked. Is my success with women (or lack of) because I make them comfortable?
USMCHokie Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Because everyone's got something to prove. If you act uninterested, then she's gotta prove to herself that she can get you. Once she does, your purpose has been fulfilled and you are no longer needed. It's an ego thing.
veggirl Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 human nature...we want what we think we can't have...we want what others have...all those cliches. but, for a relationship to work, there won't be these games...interest will be clear and mutual...all those cliches 1
USMCHokie Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 human nature...we want what we think we can't have...we want what others have...all those cliches. Yep...life's one big d*ck-measuring contest...men compete against other men...women compete against other women...we just happen to be implements of this constant feud for the opposite gender... 1
Seneca Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 I have to pretend to not be interested, to get her interested? Its happened so many times in my life now its untrue. I had a girl sending me sexual messages after a one night stand, the minute I asked her to go for a drink, BHAM gone. I went out on a date recently and all night I played it cool, and didnt make a move - I woke up in her bed. Basically whenever I initiate something just goes wrong. If I wait for her, then it generally works. Is this the girls I go for? or is it my personality? I want to be able to approach and get numbers, but that hasnt worked. Is my success with women (or lack of) because I make them comfortable? Awesome!... It's because you aren't doing what 99% of what the creepy pursuing guys are doing with the lame pick up lines. Believe me the girls have heard most, if not all of it. So when you do the opposite...
Febreze Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Awesome!... It's because you aren't doing what 99% of what the creepy pursuing guys are doing with the lame pick up lines. Believe me the girls have heard most, if not all of it. So when you do the opposite... That's true because the guys I've dated over the years pursued me in the low key way which worked like a charm but whenever some guy would be all over me trying to get my number just ewww
freetolove Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 I don't like men who are aggressive. I like it when a guy makes me feel safe.
Philosoraptor Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Ugh the games, I don't play them. If you want to find the right person that likes you just for being yourself then just be yourself. If they are interested in you for being you games won't matter. Dating mature adults who are confident in themselves usually eliminates this issue. I present myself and if they don't like it they are welcome to leave. The moment someone starts playing games with me I am out.
firehawk_1 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 its how it is. women and their stupid games. pathetic. why complicate things? why cause drama?
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