marilla Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Hello everyone. Me and this man were getting to know each other casually. Then this woman hit on him and he gave me up badly. I confronted him and after seeing how deeply hurt i was he immediately came back wanting to reconcile. Of course i didn't accept that and had no contact with him for 3 months. He found me a few days ago saying that after our confrontation he had realized that he had made a mistake and he gave her up wanting to be with me. Now i know she is very important to him, at least was, and that seemed like a sacrifice to me on behalf of his part so he could be with me again and not hurt me further. Do you guys also see this as a sacrifice or have i lost my mind here ?should he be given another chance or let go? Remember that i was hurt really badly but i have this sacrifice thing i don't quite understand. Thanks for all your help.....This is really confusing me.....
geegirl Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Hello everyone. Me and this man were getting to know each other casually. Then this woman hit on him and he gave me up badly. I confronted him and after seeing how deeply hurt i was he immediately came back wanting to reconcile. Of course i didn't accept that and had no contact with him for 3 months. He found me a few days ago saying that after our confrontation he had realized that he had made a mistake and he gave her up wanting to be with me. Now i know she is very important to him, at least was, and that seemed like a sacrifice to me on behalf of his part so he could be with me again and not hurt me further. Do you guys also see this as a sacrifice or have i lost my mind here ?should he be given another chance or let go? Remember that i was hurt really badly but i have this sacrifice thing i don't quite understand. Thanks for all your help.....This is really confusing me..... Maybe she dumped him? How sure are you that he gave her up? 1
Philosoraptor Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 This sounds very fishy. The thing to realize is that he did drop you for someone else which is never a fun thing to deal with. He wouldn't have dropped you unless he felt something about her or their possible relationship would be better than what he could have with you.
greenz Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Anything is possible. It could be that he really did realize he made a mistake and really hurt you and it could be that he got dumped and is now crawling back. I think it is probably the second one. I wouldn't take him back unless he was really making it clear that he wants to be with you. He should be making an effort to be good to you and not just apologizing. Sounds like he feels guilty and is looking for comfort. Don't give into that.
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