Confused about conversation with ex... he says he loves me but doesnt know what he

[crazyconfused]

Sorry everyone I am reposting this cause for some reason I wasnt logged in when I did before.

Heres the deal. My ex and I have been split for a little over a month but trying to work things out. The other day we had a huge fight. Yesterday I told him I was done trying to talk to him and to leave me alone becuase he kept telling me that he didnt want anything to do with me anymore. When I got online I had an email from him telling me how sorry he is for treating me like that and how bad he feels. The thing is he said he didnt want my forgiveness because he didnt deserve it. I have since talked to him on the phone and we had a nice talk about things. He wont answer me about where we are though. He said he will tell me by the end of the night. He says he loves me still but after what has been happening the last few days he doesnt know if we can work things out. I tried everything I could to fix things between us after this fight. He was being stubborn. I know he feels bad and everything but I dont understand why he doesnt know what he wants with us.

[StartingAgain]

He's confused, scared, angry, hurt, and he isn't thinking straight. If the two of you really love one another and decide you want to make things right again, you CAN do so. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Tell him you don't want an answer by the end of the night. Something this important needs carefull consideration. Suggest a cooling off period. A week or so. Then meet and talk again. But when you do, what you guys need to talk about isn't the problems you are having, but how much you love one another and how you are going to approach solving your ploblems. You should go into marital therapy with the best therapist you can find. I also highly recommend Dr. Phil's Relationship Rescue. It's a great book for couples in crisis.