Sugarkane Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 (edited) I've tried therapy but seems like a complete waste of time and money. Didn't giver Answers why the same BS happens to me. Especially the latest one went cold and distant for no reason. Won't explain anything then complains no one gets him. Hadn't seen him in weeks for no reason. Answered in riddles and then dumped me by text. Utterly bizarre. I'm sick to death with this complete garbage. Get nothing but insults by jerks on the dating forum. And I quote " you and so and so should compare notes, you both have bad taste". I think Loveshack should do some culling on the dating forum. Edited June 7, 2012 by Sugarkane iPhone error
Philosoraptor Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 I'll say what I've said before. It seems to be your people picker more than anything else. Signs are being missed or ignored and leaving you in this vulnerable position. What exactly are you looking for in someone? Figure that out and adjust your people picker accordingly.
Mr Scorpio Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 What are you doing wrong? I'm not familar enough with your story to give you the sort of answer you are thinking for. Perhaps you are basing too much of your happiness on an intimate relationship with another person? I know how draining lonliness can be. For me now is the worst time of the year to be single, but single I will continue to be.
Author Sugarkane Posted June 9, 2012 Author Posted June 9, 2012 What are you doing wrong? I'm not familar enough with your story to give you the sort of answer you are thinking for. Perhaps you are basing too much of your happiness on an intimate relationship with another person? I know how draining lonliness can be. For me now is the worst time of the year to be single, but single I will continue to be. Well there's pressure as I see others my age getting married and having kids. It also makes me wonder why the ex friends- who are just a bunch of sheep anyway are married even though they're assclowns. It just seems like everyone has this mentality of " let's see how many people I can screw over" belief. Women have read relationship books. But men read P.U.A books/ how many women can I sleep with books. Should I just start screwing people over? Always works for my exes somehow. Yet they're so popular with people.
Philosoraptor Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 You sound very jaded. Not all women are kind and not all men are *******s. I've read relationship books and have never had any desire to read any pick up books. Stop worrying about what the rest of the world wants and what the rest of the world thinks. Just do what is best for yourself and you'll have no reason to feel negative.
Mr Scorpio Posted June 9, 2012 Posted June 9, 2012 Well there's pressure as I see others my age getting married and having kids. It also makes me wonder why the ex friends- who are just a bunch of sheep anyway are married even though they're assclowns. I certainly understand that pressure. For me, not only is it the marriage aspect of it, but the career aspect of it as well. Women have read relationship books. But men read P.U.A books/ how many women can I sleep with books. Should I just start screwing people over? Always works for my exes somehow. Yet they're so popular with people. Personally, I read books on happiness, on living life with purpose, and on how to calm the mind. To each their own I suppose. But screwing people over? Do you think that would make you feel better?
Author Sugarkane Posted June 9, 2012 Author Posted June 9, 2012 I certainly understand that pressure. For me, not only is it the marriage aspect of it, but the career aspect of it as well. Personally, I read books on happiness, on living life with purpose, and on how to calm the mind. To each their own I suppose. But screwing people over? Do you think that would make you feel better? Won't make me feel better, as I wasn't brought up that way. Yet I see others do it and yet everything seems to turn out well. I really feel like I'm banging my head against a wall concerning this therapist. And she will be on maternity leave yet AGAIN.
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