crazyconfused Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 Heres the deal. My ex and I have been split for a little over a month but trying to work things out. The other day we had a huge fight. Yesterday I told him I was done trying to talk to him and to leave me alone becuase he kept telling me that he didnt want anything to do with me anymore. When I got online I had an email from him telling me how sorry he is for treating me like that and how bad he feels. The thing is he said he didnt want my forgiveness because he didnt deserve it. I have since talked to him on the phone and we had a nice talk about things. He wont answer me about where we are though. He said he will tell me by the end of the night. He says he loves me still but after what has been happening the last few days he doesnt know if we can work things out. I tried everything I could to fix things between us after this fight. He was being stubborn. I know he feels bad and everything but I dont understand why he doesnt know what he wants with us.
uriel Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 Give him time. Don't force things. Let him come back to you with where you are when and if you are ready. The constant pressure to perform emotionally, the relationship tension, puts some guys off -- can drive them away. Give him his space -- sounds like he needs to do some thinking and make some hard decisions. You shouldn't be the one doing all the work. -- uriel
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