Jayne085 Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 (edited) So a little bit of background - I have recently (2months ago) broke up with my cheating partner of 5 years. The past few weekends have been letting my hair down with my mates and enjoying life. Last weekend I was pretty drunk and started chatting to this guy (I know of him through friends of friends but never actually talked to him). We hooked up and I went back to his place but nothing happened. The problem is he is an ex boyfriend of the biggest socialite in town. Id call us friends but we dont have each others phone numbers/ hang out etc but in a greater extended circle of friends. Anyway she was hurt bad after their breakup and is one of the biggest gossips in town. I do not want to get on her bad side (as the whole town could end up against me) but i really want to see this guy again. Am I just rebounding (although he is super hot!) or should i risk seeing him again in secret just to see if there is any connection between us? My mates are telling me to play it safe and stay away but Im pretty keen on him and he has asked me out a few times now and Im worried I could miss my chance. Any thoughts on dating friends ex's? Thanks Edited June 7, 2012 by Jayne085
veggirl Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 She's not your friend, as you said you don't have one anothers phone #s or hang out regularly. She is an acquaintence. Date him if you want. She is the top socialite who runs the town? LOL what? Does she expect her ex to never date again? How immature, really your "whole town" will turn against you if you date her ex? Umm. So I guess they all dated men/women who'd never dated prior to them?
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