sunlover Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 hi all Went to school and worked with a guy for about a year. We started hanging out 6 months ago and have been together practically daily since then. Dinner, drinks, movies, walmart , etc. He has a fiance in a foreign country who he hasnt seen in over 1 year. and he only saw her for one week. She has some legal issues in regards to visas and coming back. They have no idea no date etc. Theyre on a break and doing their own things He just broke it off with me saying hes not ready for this sefious of a relationship. He swears shes not coming back, its just him needing to handle some things. Im ok with it because, A- he said he'd call me in 2 weeks to see where he's at and B- i want him to step back a bit & clear his head. Wondering if he's realizing that his LDR is unrealistic in regards to legal issues or if he's just wanting to break it off and wait for her possible return. He isnt happy with being away from her, shes not happy. I would think its best for anyone in this unknown situation to move on? Advic
whichwayisup Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 hi all Went to school and worked with a guy for about a year. We started hanging out 6 months ago and have been together practically daily since then. Dinner, drinks, movies, walmart , etc. He has a fiance in a foreign country who he hasnt seen in over 1 year. and he only saw her for one week. She has some legal issues in regards to visas and coming back. They have no idea no date etc. Theyre on a break and doing their own things He just broke it off with me saying hes not ready for this sefious of a relationship. He swears shes not coming back, its just him needing to handle some things. Im ok with it because, A- he said he'd call me in 2 weeks to see where he's at and B- i want him to step back a bit & clear his head. Wondering if he's realizing that his LDR is unrealistic in regards to legal issues or if he's just wanting to break it off and wait for her possible return. He isnt happy with being away from her, shes not happy. I would think its best for anyone in this unknown situation to move on? Advic He's lying to you. First he's engaged, then she is having visa issues and now they are on break and can do their things? Meaning each of them can 'date' others and do as they please? Sorry, but something stinks here. I really hope you don't believe him. Him ending things with you is what he wants. Chances are she IS on her way back to him and he's just covered his ass, said whatever to get you off his back. One thing, you did know while 'getting to know him' that he was engaged, right? Right from the beginning? If so, then you need to take a step back and ask yourself why you would involve yourself with someone who is engaged. I would back off and leave him alone. Focus on letting go and healing yourself.
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