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This may be stupid, but that's why I'm asking. I'm really not sure what to think about this.

 

When I was first involved with my boyfriend, he had this one song that reminded him of me. He made me a CD of it (I would never have heard it otherwise because it was country music and I didn't listen to it or like it). Well, of course I fell in love with the song because it had so much meaning for us. I used to play it when he wasn't around and get a big smile on my face.

 

Then we started to have problems and it seemed like whenever we heard the song on the radio he acted like it was any other song - he'd kind of sing along with it, but just like he did every song. In fact, sometimes it's like I can't even get him to meet my eyes when the song is on. I take this as that the song doesn't have that meaning to him anymore and it bothers me (we've only been together about 1.5 years).

 

He says "why do you assume that" and I say because of the way he acts when it's on!!

 

What do you all think?

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You're being silly :) Stop focusing on trivial things in your relationship.

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Try and remember how the song makes YOU feel. Also stop bringing it up as that could be why he's acting that way, because your putting pressure on him to make the song special all the time. :o

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