SeattleBabe Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 I've been dating this guy for over 3 months now. We used to spend weekends together. The connection was great. Sex was awesome. And when we are together, he's really all over me. Last week, I talked to him about exclusivity and I put down the "What are we?" discussion. He told me he needs to think about us. I responded to him by telling him that if I am being friendzoned, I have to put boundaries and we won't be having sex anymore. He told me, he'll let me know soon, and he asked me to not talk about that again unless he does. This Friday he called and asked me out. Just like before we hung out to his place, had few drinks and ate food. But, he was different, he never touched me, never kissed me and so we never had sex. Was that his way of telling me that we really are just better off as friends? Since I've told him that if I am being friendzoned, I am not willing to have sex with him anymore. And also, if he's already made up his mind, why didn't he bring up the discussion and why did he invite me out? I'm going nuts! Need some insights, thanks in advance!
mesmerized Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 Sounds to me like he is not too sure about what he wants. In any case, I think you should let go of this guy. He doesn't like you enough for exclusivity and even if he accepts it after the ultimatum you gave, there is no guarantee he sticks to it and be a loyal boyfriend for you. 2
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