sarah1268 Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 Ok so, my bf of almost 3 years broke up with me nearly a month ago. He has only called me twice since then and I have made no contact. Tonight he called me and asked if I was free tomorrow night, and if we could go out? I said so what is the point of this? He like, well I have missed you so much and I have had no interest in any other girls and I would like to give it another go. I was composed, but inside I was screaming with happiness. My questions is, should I act distant and not overjoyed? Should I just take it slow, do we even kiss at the end? I have no idea how to act and I really do not want to ruin my chances.
TaraMaiden Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 read the No contact guide in my signature, particularly the bit about them doing the 180.... And stick with it. I don't like the sound of this at all... "Well, I can't meet other girls, so I'm coming back to you. Better the devil you know...."
geegirl Posted June 6, 2012 Posted June 6, 2012 I have missed you so much and I have had no interest in any other girls and I would like to give it another go. Blech. Sounds like 1) No prospects so he's back 2) Missing the comfort of what he had with you, not so much you 3) Bored Maybe I am wrong but it would take much more than that for a man to get back with me.
babycrapgreen Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Is he one to have pride? I think it take a lot for someone to admit that they want someone back. I wouldn't dare admit it just like you are. Play it cool. Act yourself and act like you're fine without him. But, definitely go, you'll regret it if you don't. Let him start the conversation and bring up the topic of your break up.
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