loyalty Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 So I broke up with my fiance after four years. Let me tell you the first two years were great but then she started to get jealous over my son from a previous relationship and my son is mixed. She would always be mean to him and call him racist names etc. We butted heads over it, it came to the point to where i didnt even like her I would avoid sexual contact or intmacy with her because i felt she had no respect if she couldnt except my son. So she ended up cheating on me said it wouldnt happen again gave her a chance and guess what happened again. so we broke up for a few months and we started talking and she said she would change I thought about it and decided to giver her another chance for the sake of my daughter taht I have wiht her. Well it was good for a few months then she started her **** again constantly getting jealouse over my son to the point if i gave him a hug it was a problem, then I found out she was emotionally cheating on me again with some guy over the computet sending him pictures and chatting with him every day in a intimate way that killed me to the point like what iss wrong with me so i tried to end it and she apologized to the fullest so stupid me gave her another chance and found out she was still talking to the same guy, so I didnt know waht to do, then i broke up wiht here and got my pride back but started missing her again so we gave it another chance but this time onlly went good for a month then same ol same ol i felt so miserable wiht her like she isnt the girl i fell in love with. so we break up and i found out she started dating one of my good friends like a month later and thats is the ultimate disrespect and she says rude **** to me all the time and uses my daughter as a weapon, my daughter doesnt even want to go back wiht her when its time to leave she even cries it breaks my heart. I mean for all the disrepectful **** she has done do you think she even ever loved me.
Philosoraptor Posted June 6, 2012 Posted June 6, 2012 Your pride is busted and it's normal. Look at what you wrote, you got out of quite a mess. Work on yourself and move on to someone who respects you. 1
Exit Posted June 6, 2012 Posted June 6, 2012 Yeah it's probably just a shot to your pride/ego knowing that she is hooking up with someone else now, but that really has no effect on your initial decision to break it off with this woman who clearly has some sort of issue with your son, be it jealousy or some sort of racism or god knows what. Despite all the issues you might miss having someone around, not necessarily her but just the companionship in general, and when a relationship ends we all want that satisfaction of some day hearing the ex say they realize how terribly wrong they are, but now she's with someone else so you're starting to realize that's never gonna happen. You already gave this more chances than it was worth, just say goodbye to that garbage for a final time and be glad you're rid of it. 1
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