Author Gulf-Delta Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 (edited) Gotta stick with the NC, i'm there not even two weeks in and sounds a very similar situation to you. She's not ready for anything serious and you ahve to be past your feelings before you can speak to her. I have the same feelings of 'o but if she doesn't hear about me she won't care'...its bollocks she knows what you want, she will be in touch if she changes her mind, but truth is she probably won't and therefore whats the point of speaking to her. I know, I know, and I really am trying. I've thrown myself into my studies and hobbies. But I can't erase her from her my mind. Not only because she pops up there all the time, but also because it just feels wrong. I get what you guys are saying, I just don't want our relationship (and I mean that just in the friendship sense, I guess), to be damaged forever because I did something like burn a bridge because of something silly. How do I make it known that I love her (romantically and as family) enough to let her go on this journey of her life without me, but am still willing to have a friendship when she "wakes up"? How do I let her know I'll always be there for her out of freindship, not desperation? The other things is I'm constantly hearing stories of first loves (yes, she was the first woman I ever actually loved and cared about) reconnecting after X amount of time, or realizing their mistake and stuff, and going back to each other. It makes it so hard to give up when your family and friends are perfect examples of that. I really feel that her and I were a classic case of bad timing. We're only 22...college, jobs, being young...the time just wasn't right, but we really did love each other. She may love me still...but as I said...the timing was off. Circumstances changed. Edited June 8, 2012 by Gulf-Delta
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