Sawit Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 (edited) Okay, so me and this girl dated for about ten months, and slowly over time we stopped being a couple, and started acting towards one another more like friends. Well, after a few fights about nothing, we split. There really wasn't much of a NC period, 3 weeks max were I ignored her, but after awhile I felt like it was rude and finally replied back. So here we are 5 months later, we both agree to meet up for drinks. Honestly, it was like our first date all over again, only better because we were both comfortable with each other. Teasing, flirting, light touching, etc. A few days later, we meet up again. That was a week ago. To this day, she still sends me a joke or a picture, or something going on in her life. But never really asking via text about mine. In person she does, so I won't weigh that too much. --Now, onto the confusing part. Maybe the paranoid part, that's why I'm here looking for advice.-- My sister and the ex became really good friends while we were dating, but my sister, out of respect for me stopped hanging out with her after the break. My ex kept trying, but my sister made up reasons why she couldn't go out. Well, both times the ex and I hung out, she texted my sister to let her know. So me being me, and possibly over analyzing the situation, I'm started to wonder if she is using me, as a way of saying to my sister, "me and your brother are okay hanging out, that means we can hang out too." Am I crazy, reading too much into it? What? It's cool that we remains friends, but only for the right reasons, if there ever is one with an ex. Also, on a side note if it helps, she says she has a BF now, which is fine, whatever. But she also has an online dating profile a buddy of mine pointed out to me. They guy she is dating now, she has known since college, so the two are not connected. Edited June 3, 2012 by Sawit
BDranger Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 What do you want from this girl? Once you know whats important to you, go from there. Don't be afraid to crush her heart - this is your life. Your a person and you have needs and if she can't deliver, next!
greenz Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Right, who cares what she wants, what do you want from her? If you want to be friends, then you got it. If you want to be more then friends then go for it. Tell her you're really up for trying and let her decide. If she doesn't want to, stay friends. No big deal. As far as your sister is concerned, I think it is more likely that it is the other way around. Staying in touch with your sister is a good way to get closer to you or to keep you in her life. A girl wants a man in her life. She can find girlfriends elsewhere.
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