oranged Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 it's eating me. i'm 41 so not 20. i can't deal with it and i can't get anyone intrested.
Mr Scorpio Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 Didn't happen for me until twenty-six. I coped via a social circle full of guys who like myself were perpetually single. Video games, poker nights, guitar, books, movies -- and lots of pr0n. Now that I'm older and that social circle has slowly wilted away? Homework, guitar, exercise, books, video-games, homework -- and lots of pr0n.
Author oranged Posted June 3, 2012 Author Posted June 3, 2012 what happens when you try to get one? they aren't intrested in me or arent interested in me sexually.
Philosoraptor Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 they aren't intrested in me or arent interested in me sexually. How often are you putting yourself out there? Dating is a numbers game and finding mutual interest is a lot harder than it seems. You just need to keep at it.
Author oranged Posted June 3, 2012 Author Posted June 3, 2012 How often are you putting yourself out there? Dating is a numbers game and finding mutual interest is a lot harder than it seems. You just need to keep at it. used to a good amount but haven't in a few months. i can't take it anymore.
CopingGal Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Sorry sweety. If it helps any...I've had very, very few and I am in my 40's. I thought the latest one I had was the best relationship I ever had...until I found out that it was all a lie and that I was lead on and used for 3 years.
tryingtodiscoveranew Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Sorry sweety. If it helps any...I've had very, very few and I am in my 40's. I thought the latest one I had was the best relationship I ever had...until I found out that it was all a lie and that I was lead on and used for 3 years. You have peaked my curiosity...in what way were you used for 3 years? I hate to hear something like this?
nanbullen Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Have you tried online dating? i know a lot of peoplewho found someone that way. Have you tried to pinpoint where things might be going wrong?
Renard99 Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 Oranged, have you tried using dating websites? I know they're not for everyone but they do open up a wealth of people that you may never have met just by simply 'going out'. They try and match you with people who may be interested in you and the great thing is your profile is always 'out there' even when you're not. It all worked for me. I was 'out there' with my friends and only ever seemed to meet taken women or women that weren't interested in me, yet, as soon as I joined match.com I found hundreds of women in my local area that were single and a few even messaged me with interest. One of them is now my girlfriend and we've been going strong for months now. It can happen mate, keep your chin up!
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