adjusting

[Hereiam007]

Hi, I just have to vent about my ex, and somebody tell me it will be ok. : )

Well, I had an on and off relationship. I guess when I met her and dated her in the beginning. I was in a desperate time, meaning I just want to have a girl friend. period.

 

Well, she is a mother of 3, and she pretty much got bad advice from her friends about me, and like the last year we were on and off every 3 week for about couple days.

 

Towards the end, her friends said to her to dump me and find someone else. and during the end, we had the best time like it was in the beginning. I was working on making sure to have her as a girl friend, and she was texting other guys, sexting.

 

The thing is we like to help homeless people here and there, and one of the homeless person, I got the number, and R. said that she wanted to see how he is doing. I gave the number to her. Lo and behold she starts sexting him, and now she told me she is in love with him.

 

This was couple weeks ago when we last spoke. Some thoughts going through my mind. Was I that low of a person that she would just take any boyfriend? and She threw away our experienced relationship together over a homeless. (she fell for his sob story, and probably he is living with her now.)

 

I know it doesn't make sense. I guess I should have seen the red flag about her when I saw her angry in the beginning. and Also, I didn't know how she would behave in front of my family either Stand-offish or angry to make a scene. I also found out she was married 3 times instead of the twice she told me. Oh, well. I am talking to other girls and they are helping me cope. Thanks again. I know soon. I will say to myself what was I thinking in dating a divorcee of three with 3 separate children from different guys.

[Philosoraptor]

Count your blessings as this was a horrible mess. It will get better just give it time and stay away from this woman.

 

Reading that all I could do was tilt my head and say "dafuq?"