steve23456 Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 so we dated for about 2 years and broke up twice before for about a month. she came back both times. she was the one who initiated the previous breaks and this one as well. it's been two months now and I feel like I'm losing her for good. she dumped me because I talked a bunch of trash to her about some previous things she had done in our relationship after we had gone out one night and had entirely too much to drink. she ended up leaving my house in the middle of the night crying. I have apologized over and over again. I've seen her several times in the past 2 months, and we have had a great time together every time except for the last where it got a bit awkward. she's met a bunch of new friends and is seeing someone else but it doesn't seem too serious. she doesn't really talk about it. she never had many friends before and it seems she is having fun. I'm glad for her. she still replys to texts and phone calls but now says that she doesn't want to see me. she says that it isn't what she wants, but never tells me what she does want. I think she doesnt want to see me because she still has feelings and knows that we will end up together again if we hang out a bunch. I can say the time apart has been good for me as I've realized that I truly do love her and want to spend my life with her. I have thought about proposing, but I'm not sure if it would go well. what can I do to get her to give it another chance? why would she still talk to me but refuse to see me? thanks for any input/advice.
Philosoraptor Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 Work on bettering yourself for now and leave her be. If she comes back she will need to do so of her own choice, not because of something you do.
leoc1973 Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 yup leave her be. I do think what is happening here is she is taking advantage of an argument to date other people. She knows she can have you back any time she wants so she is going to see what else is out there. You have to let her know that losing you is a very real possibility and really leave her alone. But then comes the question... Do you wanna be with someone that would take advantage of your love? And does she really love you if she is in fact doing this. My ex did this exact thing to me. She knew she could have me back anytime she wanted so she put me through a year of hell. Then I meet someone else and all of the sudden she is sorry, She made the biggest mistake of her life, I am the love of her life, Bla bla bla. Go out with a new girl and you will see!
listen_to_me_please Posted June 13, 2012 Posted June 13, 2012 Then I meet someone else and all of the sudden she is sorry isn't that the truth
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