Amynicolee Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I was in a long distance relationship with the guy of my dreams we have been on and off for six years before we even started dating and even started hanging out in person. before all that we just text non stop and had Skype dates. I have lost him before and recently got him back six months ago and it was love at first message (again) so we decided to meet in person the first visit was amazing we spent hours in each others arms laughing and talking about our future and if we wanted one together he even gave me his class ring as his promise to come back for me. after that week I went home and we went back to Skype dates and we decided it was not good enough so we decided that I would go back down there for his last week before he leaves to go to the air force..... Now here is where the problems occur.. When I was down there the first night was amazing he gave me a candle light dinner, the next day we watched the race together and hung out with his mom. The day after that is actually where the real problem occurred that day he just spent the day sitting on the couch playing WOW, while I sit by his side watching him play and played on my phone where my ex was texting me and telling me they loved me and that they would do anything to have another chance.. but I dont want a future with my ex even though I told him I loved him back in the text... yeah i ****ed up... but anyways back on track he would not say much and I would end up going to bed without him, It did not feel like we were vibing and one night he came in his room where I was and I just looked at him and said Im done because I could be back at home doing things instead of just watching him play wow all day and he looks at me and says im childish and I ended up yelling and told him to just take me back to the train station and drop me off, it was at three in the morning, we then ended up just going to sleep and as awkward as it sounds we still went to sleep in the same bed. The next morning about 11 we woke up took a shower and went out to lunch where we sitt staring at each other like we did not know what we were doing and we talked about getting back one day in the future if we did not find somebody else.. he didnt even ask for his ring back because he would not need it in the air force and he promised he would still write me and call me when he got out of basics so he could come and see me. and we got to the train station I was a wreck and was crying my eyes out. he left gave me a hug said ill find better, to take care of myself and he STILL LOVED ME and he will see me soon. he did that three times before the train approached, now that Im home we have skyped but it was a complete mess even though when we got done talking I said I love you still but since im childish u can cut off all communication . he said it back that time but now since then he hasnt text me or nothing and he dont leave until Tuesday for the air force and im scared that skype call was the last one and im scared he wont write me a letter or anything.How do I explain to him that I did not want that to come back as cheating and I do not want another relationship but just one with him? How do I fix what I done? How do I get him back from a distance? I only have three days. please help.
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