alexjames Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Hi all, new to these boards! I'm 20, and have never had a girlfriend and never even been on a date or anything. Well a few months back, i was talking to a work colleague about stuff and got onto talking about relationships. She said she is pregnant with her 3rd kid (she's 26) and been with her BF for 8 years. She asked if i had a gf, I said no, and she asked me why. i said i had confidence issues etc and couldnt see myself meeting anyone. she told me thats rubbish and to give this site a go as its where she met her bf. i thought why not, and put a profile up. Well after a while, a couple of weeks ago, a girl contacted me on there, and weve been texting for a while, and she wants to meet tomorrow just for a walk on the beach with her dogs, just to get to know each other. We are both really nervous, shy, scared and i've never had any experience of this type of thing. I really could do with some tips/advice!!
TaraMaiden Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I'm being serious here - take a couple of carrier bags to pick up dog mess - this will show your thoughtful, considerate side, and let her see that you plan ahead.... (hopefully, you like - and aren't allergic to - dogs!) Secondly, buy her a little portable gift - not flowers, maybe a couple of pretty cupcakes from a good bakery for you both to eat as you sit and chat.... Just be nice, and be yourself. Be natural, and if you're shy, tell her that. She's human too, and is probably feeling just as nervous as you are. remember, she's chosen the same avenue to meet people and get to know guys, So you're in the same predicament. Never, ever assume that anyone else is far more confident and self-assured than you are. Often, there is nothing further from the truth.
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