teeny Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I'm going to try to explain the whole situation as quick as possible. Around Christmas time I met 2 very awesome guys, 'Jake' and 'Chris'; however, Chris lived 90+ miles away, but I knew I had more feelings/chemistry for him. After dating Jake for a month, we both realized it wasn't working. Over the past 6 months, Chris and I have texted the entire day, and talked on the phone at night. I've finally realized that he's become one of my best friends, and I am head-over-heels for him. Here comes the complicated part... I haven't seen Chris since Thanksgiving, in that time I put on weight because I was taking a steroid. Since I quit taking it, I've managed to lose a decent amount of weight. Chris, keeps insisting that we hang out in the next week or so. I would like to avoid lieing at all costs. But I am quite aware how he feels about over-weight girls, and its not something I want to bring up. (I tried to bring up chubby girls through a joke, but I quickly confirmed that he doesn't like them, mainly because he's on the smaller side, and works out a ton.) I am quite confident that if I put off us hanging out for another month, I can lose the rest of the weight and close that chapter in my life. Help!! Any ideas????
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