Chocolate182 Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Hi, I recently starting talking to a guy, well, about a month ago. We've made out, but I firmly do not believe in pre-marital sex. He said he's very religious and I'm pretty sure he is and he knows I am conservative. I just don't know what he thinks about sex before marriage. How would I broach this topic? He told me that he's an open book and not to be scared about asking him anything...we text all the time and we've only seen each other about four times. What to do? I just don't want him to have expectations. I'd love some advice!
TaraMaiden Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Text the following: "What are your views on sex before marriage?" Sorted. unless you take a direct approach, this question will remain like an elephant in the room for you. If he says you can ask him anything - then take him at his word - and ask him.
TaraMaiden Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Well, sex usually is.... There's really no point being too coy about it, or pussyfooting around. If this guy is a potential partner, you need to find out before life gets too complicated. If he's an 'open book' and that you shouldn't be scared to ask him anything, then maybe that's exactly what he's hoping you'll broach. Might as well bite the bullet and get it over with. Oh and - be careful he doesn't turn it back on you. If he comes back, and says something like - "Interesting question! Why, what are yours?" You asked first. 1
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