Breck Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 What is everyones opinion as a dumpee on having casual sex/one night stand after a breakup to get over your ex? While having casual sex (and the rest of the night) I feel like I have moved on from my ex and could care less about our history together. Then the next day I feel remorse and wish we were still together more because of having sex. What does everyone think about casual sex as a means to moving on? Is it better than NC? I like to think of casual sex as NC 2.0 in 3D! :bunny:
MissBee Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Having meaningless sex doesn't erase your ex or your problems. Sex usually complicates people's lives more so than resolve anything. Having rebound sex didn't help me one bit...and is completely unrelated to NC. I'd rather find healthy ways of moving on, that do not include rebounding or having sex with other people. Leave other people out of your healing. It is less complicated and more likely to be authentic than if you rebound or have casual sex as a means to "forget"....and usually you feel even worse, especially women, when you do that.
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