paperboy48 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Do you feel you’re in competition with your ex? Do you feel you need to be the first one to date again, tosleep with someone else, to be in a relationship with someone else? If you lived togetheror were married…do you feel like you have to have the nicer house? Do you compete to make sure you’re hanging out with mutualfriends more than your ex or just hanging out with friends more than them in general If you have kids with your ex, do you try to do more funactivities with them or buy them things?
mephisto Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Good thread. My ex was competing against me to see who was smarter, who could uphold longer the silent treatment, who could do this or that better and everything else. I am in such a better place now!! Keep your games, darling...if you only knew... That is as toxic as it gets. Do you feel you’re in competition with your ex? Do you feel you need to be the first one to date again, tosleep with someone else, to be in a relationship with someone else? If you lived togetheror were married…do you feel like you have to have the nicer house? Do you compete to make sure you’re hanging out with mutualfriends more than your ex or just hanging out with friends more than them in general If you have kids with your ex, do you try to do more funactivities with them or buy them things?
someone12341 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 i figure let them compete there will be no winner/loser. I will always be the bigger person and shrug off there attempts, no need for childish games. the bigger person is the one who doesn't compete just tries to better theirself, move on and finds happiness inside theirself Life is to short to worry or play games with an ex! 1
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