Ruby Slippers Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 There are a few, but one of the big ones is a negative, self-defeating attitude.
wheream_i Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 -Smoking -Kids -Constantly applying makeup -Constantly updating Facebook -Ignorant/no common sense -Bad teeth -Poor hygiene -Bad attitude -Inability to carry a conversation -Feminist -No sense of humor -Can't handle her alcohol -Anger issues
zengirl Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Meanness, a negative, self defeating attitude, overly materialistic, overly superficial, poor social skills, hates kids/animals (I didn't care if he wants to have any but I don't trust people who actively dislike children or animals, really), doesn't donate any money or time to charity, doesn't have an array of friends of both genders, didn't go to college. . . I mean, there are oh-so-many. I must've had 100 dealbreakers, and I still found oodles of men who didn't break them, including Hubby. The more dealbreakers you have, the better, IMO. Helps you find what you want.
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Not accountable for themselves. Drug or alcohol dependency. No sense of gratitude; big sense of entitlement. Bitter.
Author kaylan Posted June 1, 2012 Author Posted June 1, 2012 Funny that I ask people to pick one thing and they come in here with a laundry list. People never read OPs fully it seems. Like there isnt really one thing that trumps the rest of that list folks? That was my question.
pteromom Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Funny that I ask people to pick one thing and they come in here with a laundry list. People never read OPs fully it seems. Like there isnt really one thing that trumps the rest of that list folks? That was my question. The thing is there isn't ONE thing. I wouldn't settle for someone who has ANY of my dealbreakers.
Almond_Joy Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Funny that I ask people to pick one thing and they come in here with a laundry list. People never read OPs fully it seems. Like there isnt really one thing that trumps the rest of that list folks? That was my question. I did read your OP fully. Why is it so important that people only list one? No, there is not only one thing that I absolutely will not put up with. There are several. Lying's the deal breaker that pisses me off the most, but if I get an honest person that's into bestiality I'll leave them too. I won't put up with anything except one thing, that's why multiple conditions are listed. Can't speak for everyone else.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 So what is it? Keep it short. Maybe a few sentences to a paragraph. And please lets not get into any arguments in this thread. Respect each others deal breakers and keep the thread moving. Now...for a unconditional dealbreaker...Im talking something that you give no second thought for being enough reason to dump someone or cross them off your list as a potential date. Mine is dishonesty about anything that would be important to a partner or relationship. One lie, and Im done right then and there. My past has taught me that liars deserve zero tolerance. I have a few: 1. Drug addict 2. Single mom 3. Feminist (duh) 4. Has history of interracial dating (I'm sure I'll get flamed for this, but I see such women as spoiled goods) 1
wheream_i Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Funny that I ask people to pick one thing and they come in here with a laundry list. People never read OPs fully it seems. Like there isnt really one thing that trumps the rest of that list folks? That was my question. Okay, then I'll just say smoking.
joystickd Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I have a few: 1. Drug addict 2. Single mom 3. Feminist (duh) 4. Has history of interracial dating (I'm sure I'll get flamed for this, but I see such women as spoiled goods) Define spoiled goods.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 My recent breakup taught me one thing - a guy who can completely disregard your feelings when you voice it is not only selfish but a complete tool. 1
Breeze1964 Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Smoking Drug Abuse Narcissism Ignorance Cheating youve just described my ex...lmao! except the cheating, I will replace with: Drunk Cry baby hot head
gaius Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 When we were teenagers, we had a friend who used to regularly jerk off her dog. She thought it was so funny when the dog ejaculated. And yes - we backed off friendship with her after we discovered this. Ugh!!! Maybe we knew some of the same people! 1
spiderowl Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Lying, infidelity, smoking heavily, smelling unpleasantly, being unable to have sex the way I like it, being too heavy for my safety, being cruel to animals or not caring at all about how they are treated, making a directly sexual approach when I don't know him, talking to me in a disrespectful way.
Woggle Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Being a man hater No sense of accountability A history of cheating' Hard drug use
Alexanda Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Kids, cheating, lying, excessive drinking, smoking anything, drugs, putting down my favorite sport which I hate, if someone doesnt like soccer I dont give a crap, keep it to yourself. Oh no mamas boys, mamas boy are pussies.
TheFinalWord Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Non-Christian No goals or vision No self-confidence No faith Lackluster work ethic
Feelsgoodman Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Kids, cheating, lying, excessive drinking, smoking anything, drugs, putting down my favorite sport which I hate, if someone doesnt like soccer I dont give a crap, keep it to yourself. Oh no mamas boys, mamas boy are pussies. As are soccer players...If you want to see a grown man cry, go to a soccer match 1
newmoon Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 just three absolute dealbreakers: any type of drug use, sexual cheating, or mental/physical abuse .. no pass for any of those
Yookie Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 0.o Hadn't thought about bestiality but that just made it on my dealbreaker list. Wow. Also sexual fetishes with urine, feces, and/or vomit. Uggh! This made me think of the video called "2 girls, 1 cup" google it if you dare!
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