Headintheclouds Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Its been 2 weeks since I met up with her and it all blew up in my face again. Previously I went a month and a week NC. She texted me out of the blue and I fell for it. Its hard not to be consumed with thoughts of her. I'm doing everything I can to keep her out of my head. There are days that go by now that I don't think of her much at all, then there are days that I wake up thinking about her and it doesn't stop. My trouble comes with acceptance of everything. At times I am still in disbelief, like I'm going to wake up from this bad dream at some point. I can say that I *think* about contacting her still but there is no urge. I day dream about contact, and how it could end up. Its all fantasy. I know what the real outcome will be. Anyways, just figured I'd update as many of you have helped me along. All I can say is that it seems to be getting better. I wish the feeling would just go away, but I know my only friend is time…
Philosoraptor Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Keep working at it man, it does get better. Focus on the moment rather than living in the past or future. Just stay patient, enjoy the little things, and let life happen. Here's a happy song for you: 311 LYRICS - It's Alright
BDranger Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 It gets easier. Stay strong! Just keep busy and constantly build yourself back up. Get your confidence and your self esteem back, stop moping around. The only person that can make you happy is YOU! Get out there and have fun
Mr Scorpio Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I can say that I *think* about contacting her still but there is no urge. I day dream about contact, and how it could end up. Its all fantasy. I know what the real outcome will be. That in itself is a sign of progress. So many people get struck with the urge to contact their ex, even though they know nothing good will come of it. Keep on keeping on.
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