markw1217 Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Alrighty so let's get down to the facts. I went out on a first date with this girl I've liked for awhile. She had a bad past experience with her ex because he was so clingy and didn't want her to have a life. Opposite of me I am older too.I'm 22 she's 19. We went on a date we ate sushi and then had some drinks we talked a lot perfect chemistry. We did start to kiss toward the end of it and hold hands. Me and her have known each other for awhile so it felt like a " finally this happened". So I dropped her off and she texted me later saying how much fun she had and thank you goodnight. Everything great! Buy the next day we were texting and she said - Yeah it was cool! But just to clear something up- last night felt a little too relationshipy for going out for the first time.. And I am not looking for anything other than just to have fun and go out and stuff. I'm happy being single. Idk if you were thinking anything else but I just wanted to say that early on so you know my mindset. I told her I was on the same page and I was glad we saw eye to eye and continued the convo. I have gotten that text before from girls and a month later we were datibg and it was a great relationship. So my gut feeling is telling me to back off a bit so I'm not needy. I feel that's what she's worried about bc of her past. My friends say to act like nothing happened and just talk to her like normal. So I'm kinda torn lol. When we messaged later that day she was out with friends so she wasn't too responsive not a biggie. But from now on I want to make the right choices. I want to continue the having fun thing. If it turns into whatever then great! If not at least i had a great time.
Philosoraptor Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 Sounds like you're taking it the right way if nothing else. Enjoy the moment and let life happen.
LittlePrince Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 If you want to get to a point where you have sex with her then I would dump her and move on. No need to waste time on her. That was girl code for she just wants to lead you on.
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