IronToe Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 (edited) Ok well I'm all new to this and not sure what to do. First a little about myself I'm in my late 30's and a professional with relationship issues. I was in a relationship for about 16 years was never married and have two wonderful kids. We split about 3 years ago as now I have been in a relationship with another woman (we'll call her girl #1)for about 2 years on an off. The last time we split up I met another woman (girl #2) who is about 8 years younger than me. We dated for a few months and then I went back to girl 1. A little about girl 1, she is a couple years older than me. She is good hearted great person who is always looks to make everyone in her life happy and puts others over herself. She has a good job and great personality and beautiful. A little about girl 2, she is about 8 years younger than me. She is silly, fun to be with, family orientated. She had a good head on her shoulders and is pretty. The quirks girl 1, she is overly affectionate and at times smothering always apologizes for little tiny things that doesn't make any sense why she would and is insecure. Tells her kids things about her relationship that I don't think kids should be involved in. Girl 2, she has to get her own way. I don't like her friends. Had an issue with drug dependency in the past. wants kids but I don't and doesn't work. She is also insecure. Sexually girl 1, I love sex with her but its just plain but good sex. Girl 2, would let me do anything and is freaky. I'm still in contact with girl 2 and she says she want to be friend still with benefits. Girl 2 was really upset with me when I broke off with her for girl 1. I can see myself being with both for the rest of my life. It's nice to be with girl 1 she treats me great and we have a lot in common and she would do anything for me. Which is a real nice change from how my ex was. Girl 2 would make me dinner which I would she never had done with any other boyfriend. Also stated that no other boyfriend ever treated her so good. She really enjoys being with me and I enjoyed being with her. I treat women with respect and both have told me I treat them better than anyone else. Im just torn between the two I'm currently with girl 1 but keep thinking about girl 2. I don't sleep around and I've only slept with *less than 5 woman and I be never had a one night stand. I'm not for looking someone to tell me what to do just some advise. Edited May 31, 2012 by IronToe
wilsonx Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 (edited) Take space from ALL WOMEN. FYI Girl 1 and Girl 2 aren't the problem. You claim to be a relationship professional but like most people, you can't look in the mirror and see where the problems lie. I wont even charge for this lesson either, get up go look in a mirror and there is the answer to all your problems Edited May 31, 2012 by wilsonx
Author IronToe Posted May 31, 2012 Author Posted May 31, 2012 Thanks for the clarification. That was a typo! I am in a pressional occupation and have a relationship issue.
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