udolipixie Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 This topic about playing gal games and rejecting people bluntly came out of left field. Mocking someone who shows interest in you shows a lack of gratitude. Whether I'm attracted to them or not, I take it as a compliment that someone was interested in me as long as they were not crass about it. About rejecting guys bluntly, I hope udolipixie rejects guys in her social circle differently compared to random guys who approach her. I heard how this girl rejected a guy in her social circle by telling him not to send her any more Facebook messages. I never understood udol's post about rejecting guys by saying that she doesn't want to interact with them. I can see how 'bluntly' rejecting guys came out of left field but how to you did playing gal games come out of left field? The thread was 'why do you give out your number and then not answer any of his calls or texts' and playing gal games fits the thread question. To you and others who think like you mocking someone who shows interest in you shows a lack of gratitude. To me it's not showing a lack of gratitude as I don't see it as something obliging or having a logical reason for gratitude. For me it's a guy getting his dick hard, wants to have sex with me, or finds me attractive not rights, freedom, safety, water, food, or air. Your hope is dashed on me rejecting guys in my social circle differently. Bit curious as to what you didn't understand about me rejecting guys by saying I don't want to interact with them? Guy approaches and I may tell him 'I don't want to interact with you'. There's no spiel of him finding a conversation starter, "asking for help", false time constraint, or etc to have me endure the social obligation of being polite.
Shaun-Dro Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Sounds like you are trying to date girls. The immature type' date=' who cannot handle saying "No" to your face. Don't bother with them. You're better off dating women.[/quote'] Grown, mature women have done the same thing. Or better yet, they may answer on the first call but never pick up again.
wheream_i Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Ladies, there is nothing wrong with this at all. Please continue doing this I hate hearing "No" in person. Just reject me by not answering my texts, seriously that's perfect No awkwardness, nothing, that's perfect Boooo. I dont get what's so hard about rejection. You can't win them all. Are you one of those kids who got a trophy even when you're team lost? Don't be a whiny ass. Ask someone out. If they say no thank you, be a gentleman and say, "Okay, no problem. It never hurts to ask" and move on.
joystickd Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I prefer to give them my number. If they don't call its cool, but if they do I keep conversation short. I rarely ever give out my number. Women are just too lazy to say I'm not into you.
MooBear Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I have been known to do this in the past. Generally I would get asked for my number around 2am and I would give it happily. In the sober light of the next day, I wished I could take it back. So I ignored.
joystickd Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Here is what you do when you talk to someone and its going good give them your number. If they are interested then they will call if they don't then don't even stress over it. Let's face it most women hate to be the rejectors due to social norms so you give them your number and some give it just for an ego boost "Look at all these guys calling me"
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