tsen Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 I've been through a >10yrs LDR with my recent married husband. In between this >10yrs, we had a 3yrs short distance relationship as well. All went well except recently when we're having our 1st baby. He has been complaining lots about not able to spend more time with the baby even though we Skype every day. He blame all this happened because of me doesnt want to move in with him. I love my job & am earning more than him. I bought a house which is near with where my parents stay but he is only renting a room at the city he works. Our distance is just 1hr flight but still he refuse to come over here often by giving excuses like he doesnt want to spend more time with my parents than his own parent.
d'Arthez Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 The two of you need to find a compromise, and find a way to take the relationship forward - and that is by living together. You have to be sensible about it - you can't just uproot yourself and hope that things will work out. If you can't reach a compromise that the both of you can live with, you may be better off opting for a divorce.
Author tsen Posted May 31, 2012 Author Posted May 31, 2012 Thanks,d'Arthez. Will definitely try to work on it.
ladyabstrused Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Yep, agree with d'Arthez. Also, your baby needs the both of you physically around to grow up functionally. The baby deserves better, honestly.
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