MacG Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 been on the search for the "perfect one" since i was 16 lots of hopes... lots of fakes.... lots of break ups.... found someone that i actually could relate to i believe it was love at first sight. we fell head over heals for each other but we took it slow. (btw were both abstinent) we had talk of marriage and we withheld no secrets from each other. we shared our first hand holding together first date together and our first kiss(truthfully wasn't even a true kiss was only on the cheek) but we were at the point of it all we needed was the right place and time.. then one night i got a strange text. "could we just... not text right now. im feeling weird" i said "alright sure i hope you feal better. love you". later that night she called me. i instantly picked up the phone and answered.... "______ are you alright...." she replied "no.... not really..." in short she ended up telling me she had lost feelings for me.... . i couldn't sleep for days after that. i bought her flowers and tried everything to win her back. nothing worked. so i tried the no contact thing for 3 months... i still cant get over her. she recently contacted me over the phone and i almost instantly broke into tear's. that's my story and if anyone can help that would be great. iv even tried to find someone to replace the pain in my heart. and forgetting her but it doesn't work.
mephisto Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 obviously these 3 months havent been enough for you and no shame on that. ok,she called..but what did she say ? i dont blame you for placing somebody else in your life to lessen the pain, others can argue that strategy. above all,and i know it is tough,but let go someone who lost feelings for you,waste of time and continous pain.Not worthy your suffering. been on the search for the "perfect one" since i was 16 lots of hopes... lots of fakes.... lots of break ups.... found someone that i actually could relate to i believe it was love at first sight. we fell head over heals for each other but we took it slow. (btw were both abstinent) we had talk of marriage and we withheld no secrets from each other. we shared our first hand holding together first date together and our first kiss(truthfully wasn't even a true kiss was only on the cheek) but we were at the point of it all we needed was the right place and time.. then one night i got a strange text. "could we just... not text right now. im feeling weird" i said "alright sure i hope you feal better. love you". later that night she called me. i instantly picked up the phone and answered.... "______ are you alright...." she replied "no.... not really..." in short she ended up telling me she had lost feelings for me.... . i couldn't sleep for days after that. i bought her flowers and tried everything to win her back. nothing worked. so i tried the no contact thing for 3 months... i still cant get over her. she recently contacted me over the phone and i almost instantly broke into tear's. that's my story and if anyone can help that would be great. iv even tried to find someone to replace the pain in my heart. and forgetting her but it doesn't work. 1
Philosoraptor Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 You've been looking since you were 16 but how old are you now? After a breakup it's important to shift the focus from the ex to yourself. Do whatever necessary to foster your own growth.
raebee Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 she found someone else and its over for you guys . im just being honest . you gotta move on . her sex was probably terrible anyway =) never talk to her again bc she'll only do the same thing again . trust me .
Author MacG Posted June 1, 2012 Author Posted June 1, 2012 (edited) we were both abstinent so there fore means no sex and she did find another guy who cheated on her with a 40 year old. when she called me she just wanted comforting and i tried to comfort her but i eventually broke and told her how i was feeling hoping that she could start a "rebound relationship" with me even if that dident last i would still have a few more days with her. the only reason she said she wont get back with me is because she doesn't have feelings. my question is well you dident have feelings when we started why not try again. i just feel as though i will be traped forever loveing this girl. i want to get over it but anything and everything reminds me of her Edited June 1, 2012 by MacG
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