danielle_rae Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months, and things were going great. He hasnt called me in like 4 days though, and he usually calls all the time. BUt my cousin just got back in town, who just so happens to be hsi best friend, and since then me and my boyfriend havent been talking as much, he seems to always be too "busy" with family and friends to be calling. What do i do? Do i call him? What should I say?
Olivia_19742004 Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 Have you asked him if anything is wrong? And after seven months of dating if you haven't heard from your boyfriend in four days I think it's certainly appropriate to call him and ask him if something is wrong. It's realistic to accept that he may in fact be busy but he should at least give you the courtesy of telling you what is occupying his time and when he thinks he may have time for you again.
Author danielle_rae Posted June 28, 2004 Author Posted June 28, 2004 Well either he cant use the phoen becuz his mom is waiting for a call from her kemo doctor or he is playing b-ball or hanging out with nick. I dunno i mean he just seems different.
Olivia_19742004 Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 My first suggestion would be to stop guessing and call him and ask him what is wrong and why he hasn't contacted you for four days. Don't be angry or forceful with him, but be considerate and firm. You're allowed to expect consideration from him and if he is truly busy that is all he needs to tell you. Let me know it's okay for him to have plans and other activities but you would just like to know that everything is okay and when you will be able to talk/see him again.
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