princesscharm Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 My boyfriend and i were dating for 8months now. we used to be happy and had a great relationship then one of a sudden he turns cold. He dont do the things he used to do before. Said he didnt love me anymore and he has someonelse.. It hurts me a lot. I cried every night and drink bymyself. I gave him the space he needed didnt talked to him or called him. We didnt talk for a week then yesterday he called me up. He was crying saying he misses me a lot that life feels incomplete without me. Said he still love me. Im so confuded. I dont know what to do. I still love him. I still want to save the rel. but i want him to be sure of what he really feels about me if it still the same love we had before and if i'm still the only one,. Please help. thanks.
coltsfan1 Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 Sounds to me like he is unhappy, have you all sat down and talked? I mean a true heart to heart open talk. If you believe he is serious then try and talk to him. Let him talk if what he says isn't what you want/need to hear then walk.
Phanpooh Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 If he love you, he wont hurt you, even think about it. He just love himself when he is in relationship with you. When he broke your heart, you knew you r no value for him, and now, he face the fact out there and come back. He didnt what did he have and go around for someone else, then he back with the same person as when he left? If you let him do it now, you will leave LS for few months and then come back with worse things. Trust me as much as you trust him 2
Leigh 87 Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 He might care for you a lot, but he dos not truly love you! A guy who is really in love cannot just get involved with some other girl. NO WAY. The good news is - there are OTHER GUYS who will adore you and only love you. The fact he told u he did not love you anymore then proceeded to leave you for someone else - this behaviour is absolutely disgusting. It shows he did not care much about your feelings! After 9 months, in any propper relationship, the girl would be devastated after a break up - a NICE guy would at least comfort them and apologise for running off with another girl!
Phanpooh Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 When i was a dumper long time ago, i dumped her with a simple reason, i dun love her and that not fair for her if she still with me. That is what i tell people. I told her that that me, not her fault. I turned myself 180 just like everything here called GIGS. but the truth is the ugliest. I dumped her bcz i cant hold her emotions anymore, i dun want to be tied by a bored girl. I know i like her much, but cant picture myself as a gf. That why i let her go. Bcz im single, i started my freeride again, and enjoy that. After 2m, my feeling for her come back, not enough. 3m then, she got a rebound, im at that time, deal with my bu pain, and i believe that i truly love her, she might leave me alone forever. I feel like i lost a person who madly in love with me and she might a love for last. But that is a lying, i could see she is happy with him, and i just moved on so fast. Then she dump him and ask for second chance, i refused it, cuz i dun believe she could make me love her much enough. Then complete NC for 1y and she moved, after 8y, we now r old friends, ended a chapter with good ending. So that why, i advise you to stick in NC, and wait to see that is love or just ego, emotions boots... You and he now lost in limbo, you guy dun know what is right or wrong, and if there is love, you wont come here, and there werent third party in picture
CopingGal Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 This guy is a loser...take it from me. If he left you for someone else, to me that means he was cheating on you while in the relationship. Take it from me, actions speak louder than words. People who do things like that don't love you, even if they say they do. If by some slim chance, they really do love you and do that to you anyway, then they are screwed up and you still need to stay away.
BewitchedandBothered Posted June 1, 2012 Posted June 1, 2012 He was probably dumped by the new girl and doesn't want to be alone; he thinks you are ol' reliable. 1
Recommended Posts