dirt99 Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 I've been dating girl since she was 17 and i was 20 . She got pregnant she was 18. I'm 28 now an she's 25 . We had a fight about 2 week befor she left me and we were supposed to make it better but she gave up and said she didn't no if it was gonna neo our relationship. So she left me got her own apt and new furniture bed ect. It's been 5 weeks now and I think I losing her . I had a pill problem that made me grow numb to the things that were goin to hell. I was a good dad and always spent more time than she do with our son . She wants to have hi b day party togather . But where do I draw the line . She says she thought things were bad for so long she don't think thangs can b fixed . But only time will tell. She just wants to go out all the time and she loves my son but is colder than she used to be. Seems she is thinking about herself more than our son now. I feel time is my enemy and I am woking out and sober also lost 37 pounds . I now she is having blast being single but I always let her go out and have fun. I was never mean or verbally abusive to her. I told her I loved her everyday and loved her so much. Im scared I'm gonna lose her no mater what I do . I was a little needy and needed to be more of a man . I told her I'm sorry for doing pills and not being my self and wrote beg letters explaning why I was the way I was. I hope to god I can get another chance. What do I do its been 5 weeks since she's been gone and I quit doin the things that tore us apart. I will do any thing to get my family back . I try to do no contact but with a kid its hard. Is she hutrting too? What should I do? I'm scarred to make more mistakes to push her away . Im not calling her or twxting constantly. Im bettering myself everyday. Help me please .
wilsonx Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 1) quit the drugs 2) take some space for yourself. this is huge, you need time to process things. so does she 3) take care of yourself, focus on your well being, career, your kid 4) dont be a bitch but also dont be a dick 5) grow up 6) show her you love her but letting her go do her own thing for a while
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