alp-24 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 Hey, I met my exboyfriend 4 months ago. I've always liked him since the very start, even when I was with my ex exboyfriend (whom I only dated very briefly), so when we started dating I was overjoyed. I pulled him out of a very bad depression, his life had been a mess for the past year and he wants to make things better for himself. The first 2 months were wonderful, we met each other almost every single day and we have so many common interests, so it was never hard to have fun together. After that we started having our first arguments. I had never been in a relationship where I really liked somebody before and the arguments shocked me. My friends told me that it was a transitional period where we were starting to get to know each other's flaws and the rough times will soon pass. I was having some emotional problems as well and a lot of times he tried to help me out but did not succeed. I guess he felt **** because of that furthermore he's trying to make his life better so I was pretty much dragging him down. We broke up a week ago, but he said that he still wants to see me lots cos nobody else gets him like I do. He said that he wants to focus on himself at this time. He's going to travel for a month in two weeks and he said that maybe after that we can reevaluate. I tried to win him back the night we broke up, I kept on talking and talking and suddenly he kissed me so we had sex, but he still didn't want to get back together. I had been in denial for the past few days, crying and calling him, being totally desperate! It got to the point where I pissed him off and it made me feel really bad. I decided to go to my parents' place for the 1.5 months to help myself move on and also work on my issues. I told him that and he said that he wants to meet me before I go, so I'm meeting him tonight to hang out. I'm going to keep it friendly and happy. He also said that he's going to miss me a lot. I'm trying to move on, but what he said about maybe trying again in the future keeps on bugging me. We're both young, just at the start of university, but I think that there's a lot more potential in this relationship that we haven't fully discovered yet. So I'm slowly trying to let go but at the same time be the girl that he fell for. We will be away from each other for 1.5 months and I hope that when we come back we can get back together or be friends.
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