EbbsNFlows Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 My ex broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. (My first post on here gives more details.) She did it by phone. She was angry and said some very harsh things. I contacted her a few days later, and her e-mail reply was very cold and matter of fact. The following week I (stupidly) asked if we could meet for coffee. She said that wasn't a good idea, and said she didn't want to talk about us anymore. I accepted we are done. I'm slowly healing, but I'm still hurt. I know it's going to take time. I've been on full NC for 8 days now. We work at the same company. I've been going in earlier to avoid the chances of seeing her, and there have been no e-mails or phone calls. I blocked her on FB a few days ago, and also blocked her numbers on my cell phone. (Does she know I did that? I have no idea.) I was leaving work about an hour ago, and ran into her in the hallway as she was about to go up the stairs. She smiled at me and said "Hey!" and gave me a cute, little backhand wave, as if nothing had ever happened. I just averted my eyes and kept on walking. Her reaction really pissed me off, to be honest. No consideration that I might still be hurting. Was I going out with a sociopath? What do you make of that?
KristenElaine Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 It doesnt mean anything. She simply waved and said hi to break contact and making the situation awkward. Probably didnt want to give the chance of you asking her anything. It's so harsh! I am dealing with a break up right now myself and he is already with someone else not a week after. So I feel your pain. I would suggest keeping her blocked on everything and just a simple "hello" when you run into her at work. She isnt worth your time.
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