avon20 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 If I suspect that a girl might like me but I am not sure then I think it is better to lean more on the side of saying she is not interested. The thing is many buying signals from a woman can be interpreted in other ways. Some women are just naturally flirty with everyone and many of those buying signals mean nothing. If I am going to be wrong I would rather be wrong on the side of missing legitimate green flags of interest than to be wrong in assuming she is interested when she is just being friendly or nice or flirty with everyone. Unless the signs are obvious why get excited about anything?
Philosoraptor Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 Why not try? Who cares if you are wrong? I've been rejected, I've rejected women. It's a part of life. But just like the lottery you need to play to win. You can't sit around and wonder what you'd do if you won if you never play. 1
Author avon20 Posted May 30, 2012 Author Posted May 30, 2012 I never play the lottery for that reason because I know my chances of winning are like less than 0.006%. It is so low that it isn't worth wasting my money every week to play. I am better off investing my time and money into things that have a greater probability of panning out.
Author avon20 Posted May 30, 2012 Author Posted May 30, 2012 Would you apply for a job if you knew you only had a 0.006% chance of being hired?
fortyninethousand322 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 If you have to ask, it's more than likely she's not into you. Or, if she is into you and you can't tell, you're probably not ready for dating or a relationship yet. Pick one.
Philosoraptor Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 Would you apply for a job if you knew you only had a 0.006% chance of being hired? Likely not. It was a simple analogy. This is a person, not something you can put a statistic to. If you're interested then give it a go, if not then don't bother. Don't worry so much about what her intentions are, just follow your own. I'd rather be rejected then not give it a try with someone I'm interested in.
smellybelly Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 If you have to ask, it's more than likely she's not into you. Or, if she is into you and you can't tell, you're probably not ready for dating or a relationship yet. Pick one. I don't agree with this... I'm female, and I have this horribly tendancy to come across as not interested in men I actually am interested in because I get nervous and don't want to seem over eager, whereas with men I couldn't give a care for I end up acting super interested because I generally am interested in people, but because he doesn't make me nervous I'm not self aware and can be myself and therefore.....sigh... it's a horrible curse... lol..
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