Would You Go Out With A Guy With Man Boobs?

[sammiefields]

I've had man boobs all my life and have had trouble getting into relationships with women. I just wanted to know, how do you feel about a guy with man boobs?

 

Does it put you off? Would you give him a chance if you got along with him? Or is there no chance in the world you'd go out with a guy with man boobs? How important is it for you to be with a guy who has a strong, masculine frame?

 

If you haven't ever seen man boobs on a guy, then how about just a regular fat-guy?

 

Since this forum doesn't have a poll option, I decided to create a quick 30-second poll on Google docs. Please take the time to fill it in here: http://tinyurl.com/7sugaz9

 

Your response the the poll or just to this thread would be much appreciated.

 

Thanks,

 

Sammie

[Radu]

The biggest manwhore i know is going on 60 and has not held a job in his life where he didn't end up having a few affairs.

While well built, he also has manboobs.

 

I also have manboobs, i hid them for a long time through clothing, but i eventually realised i wasn't fooling anyone.

Once i became ok with the fact that they were there and even accepted them, it became better.

I even told a woman once that i have manboobs because 'what if she doesn't have boobs, someone has to have the tits in the family'.

 

I hope it helps you, it's all down to attitude.

Off-course, if your target is young party girls, you won't get away with it because those girls are very shallow.

But once you start actually talking to the mature girls out there, if you have the attitude, it's not that big of a problem.

[kaylan]

^Just because someone is slutting up the town does not mean they are smashing quality prospects lol.

 

I could easily be a man whore. But Im sure a good number of those chicks would be below my standards, seeing as more higher quality women does just put out for anyone.

 

P.S. - Moobs means the dude needs to hit the gym and get in some pushups.

 

P.P.S. - I dont know why people seem to keep trying to push the idea that if someone cares at all about any physical attributes, that it somehow makes them shallow. Would you rather someone date you and not be attracted to you?

Edited May 30, 2012 by kaylan

[Mme. Chaucer]

It depends upon whether they are perky or flaccid moobs.

[Radu]

^Just because someone is slutting up the town does not mean they are smashing quality prospects lol.

 

I could easily be a man whore. But Im sure a good number of those chicks would be below my standards, seeing as more higher quality women does just put out for anyone.

 

P.S. - Moobs means the dude needs to hit the gym and get in some pushups.

 

P.P.S. - I dont know why people seem to keep trying to push the idea that if someone cares at all about any physical attributes, that it somehow makes them shallow. Would you rather someone date you and not be attracted to you?

 

It means that some women out there were interested, and will continue to be interested regardless of moobs.

You yourself could not be a manwhore. Maybe your phisique would be good, but ... well, i told you before why you can't be one.

 

Moobs cannot fully be fixed through pushups unless they are small.

Moobs can be quite big, and no matter how many pushups you do you can't fully get rid of them without surgery ... or use steroids if you think that's a good ideea.

[CarrieT]

I've had man boobs all my life and have had trouble getting into relationships with women.

 

I've got news for you; this is NOT the reason you've had trouble getting into relationships with women.

 

My BF has moobs. And is completely hairy ALL OVER. Big deal. We are both highly educated, intelligent people who are drawn to each other for lots of other reasons besides our shortcomings.

[sammiefields]

Thanks for your replies folks

 

Radu: I enjoyed your little story. I suppose I should just try to get over them and work on sorting out my confidence levels.

[kaylan]

OP, if it bothers you so much, do the right things to get your body in great shape.

 

It means that some women out there were interested, and will continue to be interested regardless of moobs.

You yourself could not be a manwhore. Maybe your phisique would be good, but ... well, i told you before why you can't be one.

 

Moobs cannot fully be fixed through pushups unless they are small.

Moobs can be quite big, and no matter how many pushups you do you can't fully get rid of them without surgery ... or use steroids if you think that's a good ideea.

Realize the difference between "could" and "would". Ive had my periods of slutiness in the past. I could be a whore if I wanted to be. But would I? No. I dont want to be.

 

And of course moobs dont go away with just strength work outs. Cardio would help a great deal since its chest fat.

[udolipixie]

I feel a guy with man boobs is a guy with a disorder, overweight, or has a default fat deposit area.

 

Man boobs put me off and I wouldn't give a chance if I got along with him. I don't see many guys giving a chance to gals they have no attraction for if they got along so I see no reason for me overlook attraction for someone who likely wouldn't.

 

There's no chance in the world I would go out with a guy who had man boobs because I don't find it attractive. I doubt said guy would approach me if he wasn't attracted to me so I see no reason for me to overlook attraction for someone who likely didn't.

 

It's extremely important for me to be with a guy who has a strong masculine frame because that's what I'm attracted to.

[FitChick]

See an endocrinologist.

[FitChick]

My BF has moobs. And is completely hairy ALL OVER.

 

Hey, I found a picture of him!

[irin]

it depends on the cup-size if they are bigger than mine, then id feel insecure.

[Imported]

Seriously, go see a doctor. That stuff can be taken cared of for most guys. Or self prescribe some letrozol.

 

Kinda out there, but also stop drinking milk and eating beef that isn't gurranteed to be from cattle that isn't forced to grow fast via steroids.

 

Are you overweight? Try leaning out.

[Imported]

Whats a man boob? 33 and I don't know.

 

 

Gynecomastia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[daphne]

I could easily be a man whore. But Im sure a good number of those chicks would be below my standards, seeing as more higher quality women don't just put out for anyone.

 

I fixed it for you. And you can say that again, sister.

[ascendotum]

See an endocrinologist.

 

Yeah he's probably got higher than normal levels of estrogen. Changes to diet and excersing would be the better bet to begin with though I reckon, before taking anti aromatase drug. There are OTC supps that help in this regard as well that BBs take. Losing weight will help a lot, but if its gynecomatia, then some of it will be permanent I thought.

As someone said if your love interest is young slim party girls, then you'll have trouble, but not specifically coz of the moobs but your physique in general. Otherwise, I would not have thought it would not be a total attraction killer, especially if you dressed such as they were less noticable. I know a few guys with them, but still managed to meet great women, but it does knock you out of contention with some women for sure.

[sammiefields]

I feel a guy with man boobs is a guy with a disorder, overweight, or has a default fat deposit area.

 

Man boobs put me off and I wouldn't give a chance if I got along with him. I don't see many guys giving a chance to gals they have no attraction for if they got along so I see no reason for me overlook attraction for someone who likely wouldn't.

 

There's no chance in the world I would go out with a guy who had man boobs because I don't find it attractive. I doubt said guy would approach me if he wasn't attracted to me so I see no reason for me to overlook attraction for someone who likely didn't.

 

It's extremely important for me to be with a guy who has a strong masculine frame because that's what I'm attracted to.

 

That's valuable input udolipixie, thanks. For your information though, I once got into a serious relationship with a girl who was moderately overweight and not described by others as 'beautiful'. But because we got along so well, it was love at first meet, and to me she was the most beautiful thing on earth, and I wouldn't have her any other way.

 

Generally I think we men are more superficial than women, but a lot of men still can be and routinely are attracted to women who don't have ideal physical appearances.

[irin]

omg this is what i call manboobs

 

Brothers bullied and beaten for having full-grown breasts now 'living a normal life' after surgery to remove their 'moobs' | Mail Online

[sammiefields]

Seriously, go see a doctor. That stuff can be taken cared of for most guys. Or self prescribe some letrozol.

 

Kinda out there, but also stop drinking milk and eating beef that isn't gurranteed to be from cattle that isn't forced to grow fast via steroids.

 

Are you overweight? Try leaning out.

 

Yeah he's probably got higher than normal levels of estrogen. Changes to diet and excersing would be the better bet to begin with though I reckon, before taking anti aromatase drug. There are OTC supps that help in this regard as well that BBs take. Losing weight will help a lot, but if its gynecomatia, then some of it will be permanent I thought.

As someone said if your love interest is young slim party girls, then you'll have trouble, but not specifically coz of the moobs but your physique in general. Otherwise, I would not have thought it would not be a total attraction killer, especially if you dressed such as they were less noticable. I know a few guys with them, but still managed to meet great women, but it does knock you out of contention with some women for sure.

 

Thanks for the advice there Imported and ascendotum.

 

I've done a hell of a lot of research into losing man boobs naturally. I know all about the effects of estrogen etc. I just need to take consistent action, that's all. Easier said than done, lol.

[FryFish]

omg this is what i call manboobs

 

Brothers bullied and beaten for having full-grown breasts now 'living a normal life' after surgery to remove their 'moobs' | Mail Online

Why did they blur out the nipples on the mens "chests"...?

[udolipixie]

That's valuable input udolipixie, thanks. For your information though, I once got into a serious relationship with a girl who was moderately overweight and not described by others as 'beautiful'. But because we got along so well, it was love at first meet, and to me she was the most beautiful thing on earth, and I wouldn't have her any other way.

 

Generally I think we men are more superficial than women, but a lot of men still can be and routinely are attracted to women who don't have ideal physical appearances.

Your information of dating a gal who wasn't beautiful isn't unusual from my experiences as many guys are attracted to more than beautiful such as cute, pretty, and etc gal.

 

I don't doubt that many guys can be and are routinely attracted to gals that don't have ideal physical appearances since most gals aren't ideal.

 

I do doubt a lot of guys can be and routinely attracted to gals that they find unattraction or have no attraction towards.

[kaylan]

I fixed it for you. And you can say that again, sister.

Thats what I meant. I didnt realize my typo.

 

And Im a brother, not a sister lolz

[FitChick]

omg this is what i call manboobs

 

Brothers bullied and beaten for having full-grown breasts now 'living a normal life' after surgery to remove their 'moobs' | Mail Online

 

I'm surprised those boys weren't raped. Those things look like breast implants. In the 1800s the only job they could have gotten would be in a freak show. Thank god for modern medicine.