hbchick Posted June 27, 2004 Posted June 27, 2004 how many of you broke up with your first love to go to college?? what happened and did u guys ever get back together? or did you stay together with them and how did that work out??
Olivia_19742004 Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 You're too young to be worrying about love if you're just entering college at the usual age of 18. Love will come again throughout your life. Now is the time to be finding yourself and learning about the world. Don't worry too much about your fist love. If it's meant to be the one for a lifetime it will make a full circle again, but trust me when I say you will change so much in the next four years the love you'll need then may be different than the love you have now. Don't stifle yourself! Explore the world. Explore love.
snickerdoodles86 Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=black][/color] Well..... I will be a Freshman this year in college. Just when I have found this amazing guy who's almost perfect if not perfect and who is my best friend...bam... it hits. I don't really know how it is going to turn out as of right now and yes, that scares me....to death. All I know though is if we keep this thing going he's "the one" and if it just doesn't end up working out well the Mr.Perfect is still out there. I figure this maybe a good test towards something way more seriouse. If we can get through these next few years and yes, it will be hard... very hard I think we could go through almost anything together. I really hope and wish that it will work out but we are going to try, because it will hurt much more if we have to break this thing of later than now but if we don't try then who knows what might have happened and we are willing to make that sacrifice of pain to see what is possible.
Ms_Sweetness Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 My first love and I stayed together for a short while after I went off to college. We were in seperate states and it didn't work. I thought that he was the one for me until I began meeting many other guys. I agree that you are too young to know for sure who you want to be with. But always remember that true love will come back to you if it is meant to be.
blue17 Posted June 28, 2004 Posted June 28, 2004 A quote that I really hate, but I think is very true is - "Out of sight, out of mind" I don't see how you can stay together with someone for years apart, only seeing them once in a while. Eventually the two of you meet new people, and lose touch with your bf/gf. This especially when you are in the younger years of your life, making new friends, meeting many different people, and exploring life. I think everyone who enters these long distance relationships have good intentions, but in the end realize that its almost impossible to succeed. I wish you the best of luck, however.
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