did i do the right thing?

[sexyrunwaymodel1]

there is this guy that i have been talking to since the beginning of the year almost cause he used to hang out at the tables well we would always look at each other but towards the end of the year i finally decided to make a move and write him a letter giving him my number and wondering if we could hang out and stuff so he wrote me back and then we started to talk on the phone for a few days and we hung out the hole weeked and just had a great time and he would tell me how pretty i was and how much he liked me and stuff ever since last year and ever since that weekend we were on the phone non stop and then all of the sudden he kind of started to avoid me and stuff and was starting to turn into a little ass hole kind of. like he would say smart ass stuff like "o i will talk to u when i talk to you" and before he would never say that to me but one night he had finally came over and i had asked him why he was acting like that and he said it was becuase he was kind of trying to avoid me only because he was starting to fall in love with me and he was scared to fall in love with anyone and then after that he kept becoming more of an ass hole to me and he kept standing me up like he will be like o lets hang out tomarrow and he never came or called and when i tryed to call his phone he didnt answer and he wouldnt call intell like 11 at night and so finally i got fed up with it and i told him how i felt and he said it was because he has been busy and in the morning we would go and have breakfest but of course he never came or called so later on that day i had text him " u have stood me up for the last time dont bother ever calling me again and come get your ****" and then like 5 minutes later he tryed to call but i didnt answer and i havent talked to him since witch was just yesterday but still if he like me the way he said he did then he would have been trying to call and stuff but i feel like i did the wrong thing becuase i was really starting to fall in love with him and last night i couldnt sleep because i was so eager to call him and i miss him so much.

 

so bascically i need someones help to tell me if i did the right thing or not cause i really do miss him and stuff but i dont want to be treated like that any more so also can someone give me some hints on how to get over him as well cause i know if i talk to him i will fall for him and forgive him again and i dont want to do that so please someone HELP!!!!!!!

[amanda25]

Well, If you don't want to be with him, you want it over and you are sure about that, send his stuff with a mutual friend? maybe, dont answer his calls, stay away from him completely until you know you are over him...Keep your mind occupied by doing other things that will keep you busy...

OR

If you are wanting to get him back,call him and tell him EXACTLY how you feel, and see what he says..If he wants to continue playing you like it sounds he has been doing, move on!

Good Luck

[sexyrunwaymodel1]

well i did call him back last night and i told him how i felt and it didnt seem like he really cared and stuff cause i asked him if he was ever going to even call me bcak at all and he said he wasnt planing on it and he said he really didnt care and stuff like that so that got me kind of mad so i dont know what to do i know i shouldnt talk to him put i keep calling him and it sucks but i wont call him i will let him call me and i will play hard to get and make it seem like i dont care if he calls me or not then maybe he will realize that he is loosing a good thing. but thank you for ur advice i really apreciate it.....