iamawesome Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 I don't mean to steal anyones thunder because a very similar post was just made. My situation is a bit different. My ex dumped me a year ago and got married soon after. It was a very devastating ordeal for me and I never really did "heal" from it. I made if very clear to her that I never wanted to hear from her again, but recently she has been getting in contact with my best friends and family. It's incredibly annoying because it does hurt me when I find out they talked to her. Is this something I should confront my friends/family about, or am I being ridiculous here?
Svet74 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 I cant really relate to your situation.. but yes it sounds very annoying. I stay in touch with my exes family but that is only because they call/ ask to hang out with me. A lot of times i try to avoid it as much as possible. But we also attend the same church so their just trying to be friendly
heatherfeather Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 My recent ex's family has refused to give up their friendship with me. I have sent them messages on FB telling them that I understand if they have to remove me as a friend and blahh blahh...They all say that they will not un friend me whatso ever. So I don't know if they are thinking my ex and I are getting back together or what. Because of this I haven't deleted my ex from my FB, just restricted everything that he can see on there even our tagged photos together. I do find it strange though.... Maybe they are keeping tabs on me?
Svet74 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 Maybe or maybe they just like you more then him. I also wonder if my exes family keep tabs on me and then tell him everything. Cuz he doesn't have Facebook
heatherfeather Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 Ahh I would feel bad if I deleted them because I do love my ex's family. They are great people ...but they could be telling him things about what I post or if I am dating etc.
Tiera D Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 being mean to them might make them pressure the ex to reconsider the decision to breakup,well just my opinion.I would delete everyone concerning my ex though TD
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