asmith99 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 (edited) I met this girl about 3 weeks ago, hit it off well, could sense the attraction was there ioi's kino lots of questions about me eye contact smiling etc Never texted her a whole lot but when I did always had an objective to see her. Every few days I saw her, due to our busy schedule, it was quick visits like going out for lunch etc. There was never a good opportunity for a "real date" so to speak cause one of us would be working or something else going on in my life prevented me from asking her. She's a nice girl so I'm interested in her but I could sense the attraction slipping a bit as I think every few days seeing each other even though it was small stuff like lunch may of showed her I was too available and also the settings weren't as intimate as I wanted. I decided to do a freeze out on her to recreate the attraction, kinda had to anyways cause i was out of town(she did not know this), so a week passes and I haven't contacted her and she hasn't contacted me either. Then I get a text from her in the afternoon saying "hows it going stranger" i replied 30 mins or so after with the usual hey im really good just been busy u know, how are u doin, with texts she replys back right away always, she says just some stuff about working out first time in awhile blah blah blah, typical conversation. i tease her a bit on that as she told me she was gonna start working out like over a week ago. A few texts go by and she tells me I am not the only one who has been super busy. so i ask her what her week is looking like, and she doesnt reply right away, she waited like an hour which is super unusual and replys back that she is super busy this week and how she is free monday morning. I dont know where to go from here, should i respond back with soemthing? or just ignore it? I guess she was under the assumption that I was gonna ask her to do something? Usually I would just be direct and forward and say meet me for lunch etc etc. The response kinda threw me off a bit, cuz before she would be more available, I dunno maybe she lost interest or is truely busy, or playing some sort of mind game with me since I didnt contact her for awhile? Edited May 30, 2012 by asmith99
xpaperxcutx Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 This girl is smart. She's not playing games she's following your lead. She rarely initiates but in terms of replies she's prompt. stop texting her. Call her. And try to set up a real date as oppose to a quick lunch dattes. If she flakes for more that two times with improbable excuses that's wyhen you say sayonara.
mortensorchid Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 Yes, stop texting and CALL her and set up an actual date rather than just some between things meeting.
bamp78 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 This girl is smart. She's not playing games she's following your lead. She rarely initiates but in terms of replies she's prompt. stop texting her. Call her. And try to set up a real date as oppose to a quick lunch dattes. If she flakes for more that two times with improbable excuses that's wyhen you say sayonara. Ditto enough of the half assed in games dive in 100% and take the girl on a real date.
travelbug1996 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 Right. You're the one that's playing games. You're busy? Ok. So is she. Grow up.
mortensorchid Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 And make sure when you set up the date, to call her and set up a time/place well ahead of the day that you do. You are probably meeting for lunch based on one party sending the other a text. Do not text for a Saturday night date at 8 pm on Saturday night, chances are she has other plans already. Do it well in advance. 1
Author asmith99 Posted May 30, 2012 Author Posted May 30, 2012 Thanks guys for the replies. I figure I will wait a couple days and give a ring in 2-3 days to set something up 2-3 days in advance since she said she is busy til Monday. I guess Im just reading into it a little too deep from her response of being super busy this weekend but how shes free next monday morning! thats like a week away so I dunno.
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