aimee0125 Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 I broke up with my ex of 10 months last week, and I admit, that I didn't really give him a reason. I had a reason, but he caught me by surprise and it just came out completely wrong. I'm not sure why I decided to break up, looking back, but it seemed right at the time. I just really didn't expect us to not have any contact anymore. When i see him in the halls, he doesn't look at me, or looks away I can't deny that I miss him, but I'm not sure if it's him I miss, or the relationship. I don't know if I want him back or anything, but I at least want to talk to him. Would it be a bad idea to call him and give him a better explanation, and hopefully get him to stop ignoring me? Or should I wait until tomorrow until I can see him in person? Or explain in a text or something? I seriously cannot handle this no contact thing. I have to fight off tears all day because of it.. and I know it's my fault that I broke up with him but I made a mistake What could I say to him so that he'll at least talk to me?
stillafool Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 I'll second that. I really can't blame him as when someone broke up with me I never expected to be friends with them again.
Author aimee0125 Posted May 29, 2012 Author Posted May 29, 2012 I know that I can't expect him to be eager to be friends.. i never realized it would be so hard for me to be move on. I thought it'd be easy. But when we were together we spent time together every day, we texted back and forth every day... and now it's like a huge part of my life is gone and I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm looking for closure even though it was my decision.
Svet74 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 so why would you want to talk to him if you broke up with him?? If you feel guilty and only want to be on speaking terms so you feel better dont even bother... Your gonna lead him on and only post pone his healing process
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